Her Voice Is a Weapon™ | Identity, discernment, and the responsible use of your voice in life, leadership, and calling.

10 | You're Obedient, But Are You Aligned? (The Missing Piece Before You Lead) (Part 3)

Leadership doesn’t begin on platforms—it begins in the wilderness, where everything feels uncertain and no one is watching. In this episode, we unpack why identity formation must come before leadership assignment.
You can’t lead others with clarity if you’re still unclear about who you are in Christ.
Through scripture and personal experience, I walk you through what God showed me in my own hidden season—when I left corporate and entered a wilderness of obedience, but lacked alignment. You’ll discover why alignment is the missing piece before true Kingdom leadership can emerge.
 
➡️Are you struggling to hear God for your life? Use the journaling prompts 👇to begin a conversation with God and use the key 🔑 scriptures from the podcast to help you get started. 
✍️“Am I obeying… but out of alignment with the wrong identity?” (Galatians 1:15-16)
✍️“What is God trying to establish in my identity before I lead?” (Luke 4:1-14)
Also, Download the 7 day Devotional to help you stay connected to hearing Him consistently: 👉[Heart Check Devotional]
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9 | I Couldn’t Feel Peace No Matter How Much I Prayed—Until God Showed Me This!

Have you ever felt a wave of anxiety hit out of nowhere—tight chest, racing thoughts, and spiritual confusion—right when you were finally taking a step of faith?
In this transparent episode, Idina shares a deeply personal moment where a single email triggered a spiral of anxiety and fear… and how the Holy Spirit used that moment to reveal a deeper heart issue. Through scripture, journaling, and repentance, she walks you through the exact process God gave her to restore peace and clarity.
You’ll learn how to respond when anxiety feels spiritual, not just emotional—and how to break agreement with fear so you can hear God clearly again. This episode will stir your faith, reset your mind, and show you how to find peace that doesn’t depend on your circumstances.
 
➡️Are you struggling to hear God and need peace? Use the journaling prompts 👇to hear God and use the scriptures from the podcast to help you spark 🔥 a conversation. 
                         -Also-
➡️ Download the Heart Check With the Holy Spirit Devotional to help you stay connected to hearing Him consistently:
✍️“Where did this fear enter?”✍️“What lie am I believing about You—or about me?”
Let the Holy Spirit expose what’s behind the anxiety—and walk you into lasting peace.
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8 | Why You Can’t Hear God Anymore (And What Burnout Might Be Telling You)

Burnout doesn’t always look like laziness or apathy—especially for Christian single moms. It often looks like striving, over-functioning, and emotional overwhelm. In this episode, Idina shares how burnout can be a divine pause rather than a punishment.
We journey through the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19:10–15 to uncover what happens when obedience leads to weariness—and why the cave Elijah hid in was not his end, but his reset.
Through her own story of leaving Corporate America, falling into survival mode, and desperately trying to hear God again, Idina vulnerably walks you through how the Lord used journaling, scripture, and stillness to uncover the real issue: she didn’t trust God as Provider.
This episode offers not only encouragement but a prophetic coaching framework to help you hear God clearly again, restore your peace, and recognize the voice of God—even in burnout.
“I was overwhelmed and frustrated because I couldn't hear God clearly”-Idina
Mentions: Pastor Kevin LA Ewing 
Pastor Kevin LA Ewing-Understanding the Rule Book
➡️Are you struggling to hear God? Use the journaling prompts 👇to help spark 🔥 a conversation. 
Also, Download the Free 7 day Devotional to help you stay connected to hearing Him. 
✍️“Where did I stop listening?”✍️“Where do You want me to rest, reset, or return?”
Let Him speak—and let the pressure fall off. His whisper is still waiting.
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7 | Why What You’re Building Isn’t Working (It’s Not What You Think…) (Part 2)

What if the biggest battle in building your next season isn’t the obstacles around you—but the way you see yourself?
In this episode of the Identity Series, we dive into how your perspective shapes your leadership, your business, and your future. I’ll share prophetic insight about the month of Tammuz, the biblical season where vision is tested, and how this applies to Kingdom entrepreneurs today. I share my personal journey of breaking free from limited vision and aligning my business with God’s purpose through the prophetic significance of the Hebrew month of Tammuz.
Until your vision aligns with what God says about you, you’ll build from fear instead of faith. But when you allow God to clear your sight, what you build becomes stable, Kingdom-aligned, and full of provision.
 
📖 Key Scriptures:
Numbers 13:1–33 – The 12 spies and the battle of perspective in the Promised Land.
Habakkuk 2:1–3 – “Look to see what He will say” and write the vision.
 
💼 Kingdom Business Insight:
Your business reflects your internal vision.
If you see yourself through insecurity, you’ll build from striving.
If you see yourself through Kingdom identity, you’ll build from peace and purpose.
This month is a divine invitation to correct your sight and align your business with what Heaven sees.
 
🛠️ Practical Action Steps:
Pray: Ask God,
✍️ “How am I seeing myself—and is it aligned with what You say about me?”
Write the Vision: Don’t wait until it’s perfect—start now.
Guard Your Sight: Step away from comparison this week and stay focused on your lane.
 

6 | This Podcast Was Missing Something (And I Didn’t See It Until Now) (Part 1)

What if your voice was never meant to be perfect—but *prophetic*?
 
In this episode, I pause and reflect on what I didn’t see when I launched this podcast. It wasn’t bad—it just wasn’t **built from the place God was trying to form in me**. Episodes 1–4 were powerful, but they were also the behind-the-scenes of a daughter learning how to listen.
 
> I wasn’t just building a business—I was being built by God.
Inside this short but important shift, we’ll talk about:
* Why your voice matters more when it’s aligned than when it’s polished
* How God slows you down so He can root you deeply
* Why identity *must* come before strategy
* What this new Identity Series is really about
Whether you’re just starting or suddenly unsure… pause with me. Let’s reset—together.
I pray this blesses you...
 
🔑 KEY TAKEAWAYS
* God often births the assignment *while* He’s still healing the messenger.
* Obedience might mean shifting your public voice when your private walk deepens.
* The foundational episodes (1–5) weren’t a mistake—they were a map.
* From here on out, it’s about building from identity—not exhaustion.
 
Download the Free *Heart Check with the Holy Spirit™* Devotional
Start with Day 1 and let God show you what’s draining you—and how to come back to peace. 👉[Download Here]
 
📖 SCRIPTURE MENTIONED
**Galatians 1:15–16**
> “But when God, who set me apart from my mother’s womb and called me by His grace, was pleased to reveal His Son in me…”
✨ Ready to reset your rhythm with the Holy Spirit?
Listen to: (EP 4) – Foundational Listening and answer the 3 prompts from that episode found in the show notes. 
 
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5 | When Perfectionism Feels Like a Panic Attack

What if the panic you’re feeling isn’t about the task at all—but about your identity?
In today’s episode, I share a raw moment when a simple Canva upload triggered a physical reaction—tight throat, tense shoulders, racing thoughts. But the Holy Spirit revealed: “This isn’t about design. This is about *identity.*”
We’re breaking down:* The hidden root of perfectionism* How your body can signal spiritual misalignment* Why control isn’t your covering—God is* And what to do when fear starts masquerading as productivity
You don’t have to earn your worth, sis. You just have to receive it.Let’s talk about perfectionism, peace, and how to finally walk free.
✅ Here are 6 Spirit-Led Action Steps:
1. **Pause the Panic:** Step away and breathe.2. **Name the Spirit:** “This is perfectionism, and I reject it.”3. **Journal What You Feel:** Release the tension on paper. Journal all the feelings and emotions that triggered, and carry it to the Lord in prayer. 4. **Surrender the Outcome:** “Lord, I give this back to You.” Ask the Holy Spirit, to give you 1-2 scriptures to repeat 🔂 until you recognize the shift. 5. **Declare the Truth:** “I have the mind of Christ.”6. **Anchor in Scripture:** Say God’s word out loud—over and over. Until there's a shift in your body, and throughout your atmosphere.
📥 Want to Go Deeper?  Download the free devotional:
👍Day 2 offers an in-depth exploration of how to let go of the Pressure to be perfect—God’s way.  Experience 7 days of healing, realignment, and clarity in hearing God’s voice →[Download Here]  
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If you’re interested in one-on-one coaching, I would love to support you in walking confidently in your Bold Identity in Christ. Please reach out via email at 📧:Idina@hervoiceisaweapon.com; include IDENTITY COACHING in the subject line.

4 | How to Build a Morning Routine With God (That Actually Works for You)

Ever feel like your mornings are working against you instead of setting you up for peace? In this episode, I share exactly how I build my mornings with God—one that actually fits the realities of single motherhood, spiritual burnout recovery, and Kingdom purpose. I walk you through the four areas I focus on each morning: healing my mind and body, remembering who I am in Christ, building faith before the world speaks, and opening my heart to receive God’s daily provision. This isn’t another “perfect” morning checklist—it’s a rhythm of real devotion that gives me clarity, energy, and peace to face the day. If you’ve been craving a reset that actually works with your season, this one’s for you.
🩹 Healing: Resetting my mind and body before the world can.
👑 Identity: Reminding myself who I am in Christ before the enemy has a chance to whisper otherwise.
📖 Faith: Letting Scripture speak first, not social media.
💧 Provision: Opening my heart to receive from God before I pour out to others.
✨ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:• Why your routine isn’t about performance—it’s about posture.• How I rebuilt my mornings from burnout and guilt to grace and rhythm.• A simple 4-step practice to invite the Holy Spirit into your morning—even when you’re tired.
🔗 Start Here — Heart Check with the Holy Spirit™1. Download the Free Heart Check with the Holy Spirit—Day 1 provides an in-depth look at how to establish a morning rhythm that aligns with God’s way.📥 [Download Here❤️]
✨ Scripture: (My Morning Routine Go-to verses)- Isaiah 50:4 - "Morning by morning he wakens me and opens my understanding to his will."- Psalms 139:16 - "Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed."
The Beginning of your new Rhythm questions:Question 1. God, how do You want me to connect with You tomorrow?Question 2. What do I need to let go of?Question 3. What lie have I believed about my mornings with You?
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
Let’s connect! Follow the podcast to ensure you never miss an episode. Subscribe and leave a 5-star review to assist other Christian moms in discovering hope and healing!
If you’re interested in one-on-one coaching-I'd love to walk alongside you to help on your journey to your Bold Identity in Christ, email me at 📧:Idina@hervoiceisaweapon.com; write "IDENTITY COACHING" in the subject line.

3 | From Overwhelmed to Obedient: How I Rebuilt My Morning Routine With God

My mornings were chaos—scrolling, striving, and surviving.I loved God, but I didn’t know how to walk with Him from the very first moment of my day.
In this raw and practical episode, I share:
Why obedience starts before your to-do list
How to stop micromanaging the morning 
The one shift that changed everything for my mental and spiritual peace
📌 This is Episode 3 in the Rooted to Rise Series—showing how God rebuilds our rhythm before He refines our calling.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:- The scripture that completely changed my perspective: Mark 1:35- How I was merely surviving rather than truly embracing life- My pivotal moment following grief, loss, and a period of silence- How God started to reconstruct my identity—and my daily routine- Why you don’t have to endure burnout for another day
Reflect on this question:1. Have I been beginning my days without checking in with God—or even with myself?
2. Download the Free Heart Check with the Holy Spirit—Day 1 provides an in-depth look at how to establish a morning rhythm that aligns with God’s way.📥 Download Here❤️
💛Moms! You are doing an amazing job. Even if no one else acknowledges it—God sees you. And He doesn’t require perfection from you… just your presence. You don’t have to continue running on empty. A more fulfilling rhythm, rooted in His presence, is waiting for you.
📖Scripture Highlights
- Mark 1:35 - “Jesus got up early, while it was still dark...where he prayed.”- Isaiah 43:1 - "I have called you by name; you are mine."- Psalms 139:16 - "Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed."
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
Let’s connect! Follow the podcast to ensure you never miss an episode. Subscribe and leave a 5-star review to assist other Christian moms in discovering hope and healing!
If you’re interested in one-on-one coaching-I would love to walk alongside you to build not only a morning routine with God but to help you walk in your Bold Identity in Christ, please email me at 📧:Idina@hervoiceisaweapon.com; write "IDENTITY COACHING" in the subject line.

2 | Christian Mom, You’re Not Burnt Out—You’re Building From the Wrong Foundation

You’re not crazy.You’re not lazy.You’re exhausted because you’ve been building from a place God never asked you to.This episode is the beginning of the unlearning—where I show you what burnout taught me about identity, misalignment, and false pressure.
In this foundational message, I unpack:
What burnout actually reveals in your heart
How survival-mode Christianity is not sustainable
Why obedience is a better builder than perfection
📌 This is Episode 2 of the Rooted to Rise Series—where I expose the invisible misalignments that happen before we truly walk in identity.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:🔹 Why spiritual burnout in Christian motherhood can’t be solved by doing more🔹 How embracing your true identity breaks the cycle of performance and fear🔹 The real reason you feel stuck—and how to find freedom🔹 Four Spirit-led pillars that lead to lasting peace🔹 Simple, obedience-based steps to help you hear God’s voice again
Next Steps for You:1. Sit quietly for 5–10 minutes and ask, “God, what am I carrying that You never gave me?”2. Declare: “I am chosen—even in burnout.”3. Journal moments this week where God provided peace, rest, or clarity.4. Trust your discernment—remember John 10:27: His sheep hear His voice.
📥 Download the Free DevotionalStart the Heart Check with the Holy Spirit™ and let God walk you back to peace, one obedient step at a time.
👉[Download Here]❤️
📖Scripture Highlights
- Psalms 139:23, 24 - “Search my Heart.”
- 2 Kings 4:1-7 - “What do you have in your house?”- Isaiah 40:11 – “He gently leads those with young.”- Matthew 11:28–30 – “My yoke is easy and my burden is light.”- Romans 8:14–16 – You are a child of God, not a servant.- John 10:27 – “My sheep hear My voice.”
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
Let’s connect! Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode, share your Heart Check moments, or email me at 📧:Idina@hervoiceisaweapon.com
💫If you’re ready to trade burnout for breakthrough in your Christian motherhood journey, and rediscover your true identity in Christ, this episode is for you.
Subscribe & leave a 5-star review to help other Christian moms find hope and healing!

Welcome to Her Voice Is a Weapon™ — Here’s What You’ll Find Inside

Welcome to Her Voice Is a Weapon™
This podcast is where Christian women, like you learn to hear God again, heal deeply, and build with boldness—without hustling or striving.
In this welcome episode, Idina Cole introduces the powerful story behind Her Voice Is a Weapon™, how the 2 Kings 4:1–7 blueprint became the heartbeat of this show, and what Christian women can expect when they come here to heal, hear, and build. You’ll learn who “Christine” is, why your oil still matters, and what God wants to restore in you.
🔑What You’ll Hear:
• The real reason behind the podcast
• Who Christ-ine is (and why she’s you)
• A prophetic invitation to heal first and build second
• The 4 pillar themes: Healing, Identity, Faith, and Provision
• Devotional + coaching flows that help you pour again
📖Key Scripture:2 Kings 4:1–7 
✨Hearing God without striving. Feeling peace about what to do next—without performing for it. That’s what happens when you check your heart with the Holy Spirit:🙌Start your Heart ❤️ Reset with the Free 7-Day “Heart Check with the Holy Spirit Devotional”
✅Ready for a Heart Reset?
👉Subscribe + Leave a 5 ⭐️️️ Review, which allows other “Christ-ine’s” to heal, hear and build with God.
🔗Let’s Stay Connected:
Have questions or need clarity?
📧Email me directly at: Idina@hervoiceisaweapon.com 
Friend, your voice matters—and it’s time you use it.
Idina, xo